Maltby post box lets residents send messages to those no longer with us
By Mason Bunting
December 12, 2025

In the heart of Maltby’s graveyard, a small white post box sits beneath the shade of a few old trees.

Plain and unassuming, it draws the eye only if you’re looking closely.

The box was installed by Dignity, a charity which provides support to people experiencing hardships such as homelessness and period poverty.

The initiative allows visitors to send “special deliveries to heaven.”

For those who stop here, it has become a much needed sanctuary to pause, reflect and breathe, allowing visitors to leave a piece of themselves behind for somebody that they miss.

A white post box sits beneath the gazebo at the entrance to Maltby graveyard, positioned next to the gates on a gravel path.

The box is part of an initiative which serves around 45 communities nationwide, arriving in the wake of a summer defined by tension, and noise, and after Maltby was shaken by controversy over displaying ‘patriotic’ flags.

Now the atmosphere around the graveyard feels markedly different. 

People come quietly, in ones and twos, carrying cards pressed between their fingers and tucked inside of coats. 

Some write their messages in advance, carefully choosing their words; others stand by the box itself, pen poised, searching for the right sentence to share with someone they can no longer see.

Widow, Araminta Dubois, 76, visited with her grandchildren, who had just finished school for the day. They all paused for a moment before posting their letters. 

As they walked back towards the entrance, Mrs. Dubois gently wiped her eyes, reminding us of the simple truth – love is eternal.

Each card and coloured envelope represents a conversation that can no longer be spoken aloud, bridging the gap between Christmases past and present. 

Mrs Dubois told us she was sending a card to her late father this year, revealing that she only had a handful of Christmases with him before he passed away.

“Even though they’re not with us, it helps you,” she said.

Erin Connoly, 25, called the post box “an amazing, stoic show of love,” adding she wished something like this had existed when she was younger: 

She said: “Children will be less traumatised knowing they’re still being listened to by those not around.”

Erin smiles as she shares her own story: “I miss my Nanna”

“I jokingly wrote her a Christmas list of what I needed,” she laughed softly.

“It’s nice to know we can still celebrate together, after all these years.”

As December deepens and the nights draw further in, the white post box stands steady against the cold.

Each letter that falls inside carries with it – a warmth, longing and love, binding Maltby’s past and present together.